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- speakerThis is Beth Hessel.
- speakerI am in Atlanta, Georgia,
- speakerinterviewing the Reverend Joanna
- speakerAdams for the Presbyterian
- speakerHistorical Society on
- speakerAugust 16th, 2017.
- speakerJoanna, thank you for hosting
- speakerme.
- speakerI'm delighted to host you
- speakerand I appreciate being a
- speakerpart of this project.
- speakerThank you. I thought we'd start
- speakerfirst with some start with your
- speakerbeginning of your life.
- speakerYou were born here in Atlanta.
- speakerBorn in Atlanta during World
- speakerWar II.
- speakerMy father was assigned
- speakerhere to.
- speakerHe was not in the Secret Service,
- speakerbut he was in
- speakera branch of government that
- speakerinvestigated counterfeit
- speakerwar bonds and that
- speakersort of thing.
- speakerAnd so that's why we were in
- speakerAtlanta. Though both sides of my
- speakerfamily are Georgian back
- speakerto the early 1800s.
- speakerSo we're all
- speakerdeeply
- speakerrooted in the South.
- speakerAnd how long was your family here
- speakerin Georgia then?
- speakerYou and your
- speakerparents?
- speakerNot very long.
- speakerI would say two years.
- speakerAnd then we moved to
- speakerMississippi, where my dad
- speakerwent to be
- speakerhead of the Mississippi Industrial
- speakerCouncil. He ended up
- speakerin Meridian, Mississippi.
- speakerI started first grade in Meridian,
- speakerMississippi, which is right in the
- speakercenter of the state.
- speakerJust
- speakerright. Right.
- speakerWell, closer to the state
- speakerline. But on a parallel with
- speakerJackson, we
- speakerI started school at
- speakerin Meridian.
- speakerAnd my brother
- speakerand I went through
- speakerpublic schools in Meridian,
- speakerMississippi.
- speakerHe went to college
- speakerat Millsaps in Jackson,
- speakerMississippi.
- speakerAnd the summer before
- speakermy senior year
- speakerin high school, my
- speakerdad announced that we were moving to
- speakerChattanooga, Tennessee, where he had
- speakera new job.
- speakerAnd so I was
- speakerripped out of the only
- speakerfabric I ever
- speakerhad been a part of and memory
- speakerand had to go to a new high school
- speakermy senior year.
- speakerAnd it was a very,
- speakervery daunting experience.
- speakerBut sort of like
- speakerJoseph and his brothers, you know
- speakerGod used it for good because
- speakerif I'd remained in Mississippi, I
- speakerprobably would have gone to
- speakerMillsaps or to
- speakerwhat was then called MSCW,
- speakerMississippi State College for Women.
- speakerBut instead, I went to Emory
- speakerand had a fabulous scholarship, the
- speakerlargest one
- speakerfor for
- speakerCollege of Arts and Sciences the
- speakerwhole time I was there
- speakerand at Emory, of course, I met my
- speakerhusband.
- speakerLife has turned out pretty swell.
- speakerSo let's there are a couple of
- speakerlittle points there that I want to
- speakergo back to and look at.
- speakerLet's let's go back
- speakerto Meridian and growing up in
- speakerMeridian.
- speakerYour brother, it sounds like, was an
- speakerolder brother?
- speakerYes.
- speakerAnd how many years older?
- speakerThree and a half years old.
- speakerAnd he today
- speakeris a still practicing.
- speakerHe's a doctor in Tucson,
- speakerArizona.
- speakerI've mentioned my
- speakerfather several times.
- speakerI was extremely
- speakerclose to my mother
- speakerand it is sort of her story
- speakerand her family story
- speakerthat I have found
- speakermyself resonating with
- speakerso deeply.
- speakerShe was a minister's daughter, the
- speakeryoungest of five children.
- speakerSo funny to think about birth
- speakercontrol.
- speakerThe good, the good Reverend
- speakerFlanders and my grandmother
- speakerobviously had a sweet relationship
- speakerbecause my mother was born when her
- speakermother was 45 years old.
- speakerMy goodness.
- speakerSo her father died when she was 11
- speakerand her mother died when she was 18.
- speakerBut the stories that
- speakerI heard about
- speakerAnna and John, my grandparents,
- speakerand I'm named for them.
- speakerJoanna.
- speakerMy mother created the name
- speakerJoanna out of those two names.
- speakerI just love those stories
- speakerabout their happy family and
- speakerabout, you
- speakerknow, how people would bring
- speakerchickens and ears
- speakerof corn and field peas
- speakerand stuff to, you know, for the
- speakerfamily to eat.
- speakerThey had no money much.
- speakerMy grandfather was a Methodist
- speakerand he served
- speakerchurches in South Georgia.
- speakerMy mother, for example, was born in
- speakerEast London,
- speakerSylvester Waycross,
- speakerand he, Beth, he
- speakerdied.
- speakerThis is such a stunning
- speakerstory.
- speakerHe had gone to preach at
- speakera revival
- speakerin Waycross.
- speakerHe was by then the district
- speakersuperintendent
- speakerand his text was
- speaker1 Corinthians 15,
- speakerwhich is such a magnificent
- speakerexposition of the meaning of the
- speakerresurrection.
- speakerAnd it goes on and on and on and
- speakeron until it gets to that last
- speakerverse where
- speakerPaul writes, Therefore, my
- speakerbeloved brethren and
- speakerKing James, be you
- speakersteadfast, immovable,
- speakeralways excelling in the work of
- speakerthe Lord.
- speakerFor, you know, your labors are not
- speakerin vain.
- speakerIn the middle of his sermon
- speakeron that text, he had a
- speakercerebral hemorrhage and
- speakercollapsed.
- speakerAnd they put him on the
- speakertrain to Atlanta and
- speakerhe died on the way.
- speakerMy mother was 11 years old.
- speakerSo
- speakerthat is so powerful to me.
- speakerAnd, you know, mother would tell the
- speakerstory of how when she was
- speakerlittle she opened a closet
- speakerdoor in the
- speakerfront hall of the little parsonage
- speakerthey lived in. And there was a Black
- speakerman standing in the closet
- speakerand mother says, So, I
- speakerscreamed and ran into the kitchen.
- speakerSaid, momma, momma.
- speakerAnd she said, My mother
- speakerhugged me and said,
- speakerLet's go meet your papa's
- speakerfriend.
- speakerThere's some people in town who
- speakerthink that Mr. Jones
- speakerhas stolen something,
- speakerbut papa knows he hasn't.
- speakerAnd he's safe here
- speakeruntil after the sun goes down.
- speakerAnd then papa is going to help him
- speakerget out of town.
- speakerSo in the deepest,
- speakerdarkest South, you know.
- speakerSo, his
- speakerfather was a minister.
- speakerHis grandfather
- speakerwas a minister.
- speakerHis great grandfather.
- speakerThey were very prominent in the
- speakerarea around Swainsboro.
- speakerAnd my daughter and I
- speakerfound the cemeteries where,
- speakeryou know, and, you know,
- speakerit's just wonderful to see all these
- speakerFlanders.
- speakerAnd my
- speakermiddle name is, I'm
- speakerJoanna Flanders Moseley Adams.
- speakerAnd they were the Flanders.
- speakerAnd I
- speakerjust love the fact that
- speakermy great
- speakergrandfather
- speakermarried
- speakera woman who was allegedly
- speakerjust wonderful.
- speakerYou know, had six or seven children
- speakerto her name was Bathsheba, Bathsheba
- speakerDrake
- speakerand there's just a world
- speakerthat's gone forever down there.
- speakerYou know, it was
- speakeryou know, my mother was born in
- speaker1910,
- speakerso this was post-Civil
- speakerWar
- speakerand yet before the 20th century
- speakerreally got going.
- speakerSo.
- speakerSo your your your
- speakerancestors would have been among some
- speakerof the earliest Methodists in
- speakerthe country.
- speakerThey would. Yes, that's correct.
- speakerThat's correct.
- speakerAnd the you know,
- speakerthe Flanders had
- speakercome down from
- speakerVirginia,
- speakeryou know, and just made their way
- speakerdown, you know, further south.
- speakerAnd I don't know exactly
- speakerwhy, but they did.
- speakerAnd so there just
- speakerI don't know, there are lots of
- speakerFlanders in
- speakerin Georgia,
- speakerparticularly in that part of
- speakerGeorgia.
- speakerAnd my daddy's family
- speakerdaddy was born in Lyons, Georgia,
- speakerwhich is Toombs
- speakerCounty and these counties
- speakerlike Eastman and Lyons they
- speakerare they are in
- speakerthe most conservative.
- speakerThe there's no
- speakerway to describe
- speakerhow conservative
- speakerand sort of unchanged
- speakerthat area's now.
- speakerYou know, we have a place down
- speakerin the coast now.
- speakerSo I'm very much familiarizing
- speakermyself with South Georgia and it's
- speakerjust amazing.
- speakerIt's just amazing
- speakerhow things
- speakerhave changed so
- speakerslowly, if at all.
- speakerSo your your mom, your mom
- speakerwas brought up Methodist.
- speakerWere you brought up Methodist also?
- speakerI was. I was.
- speakerAnd that's an interesting story.
- speakerMy my parents.
- speakerI would say they did not have
- speakera wonderful marriage.
- speakerMother was kind of, you
- speakerknow, a Methodist minister's
- speakerdaughter, but I'm sure how
- speakershe felt about alcohol.
- speakerAnd
- speakerand daddy was daddy
- speakerwent to law school, but he
- speakernever practiced law.
- speakerHe became a chamber executive.
- speakerAnd that's what he did.
- speakerBut he was you know, he played golf
- speakerand he drank beer.
- speakerAnd, you know, he played
- speakerpoker with the fellows at the
- speakerclub and that sort of thing.
- speakerAnd my daddy did
- speakerbecome an alcoholic.
- speakerAnd
- speakerso there was a lot of
- speakertempestuousness.
- speakerThere's a lot of there's
- speakera lot of bad weather growing
- speakerup, a lot of
- speakerfighting between mother and daddy.
- speakerAnd I had a
- speakeryoung mother's aunt and my mother's
- speakersister, my aunt was
- speakerthe she come to
- speakerMississippi because my mother
- speakerwas there and she was the
- speakerDCE in our
- speakerwe went to a big Methodist church
- speakerand
- speakerI called her and my mother did too
- speakerwe called her Squeaky.
- speakerHer name was Irma,
- speakerbut she would sometimes invite me to
- speakercome spend the day and I
- speakerwould adore that.
- speakerI would go to the church
- speakerand I would just have free reign
- speakerto go anywhere and do anything.
- speakerAnd this was in Meridian?
- speakerAnd when I was in grammar school
- speakerand it was the place I
- speakerfelt safe.
- speakerI knew there wasn't.
- speakerI knew there weren't going to be any
- speakerstorms
- speakerinside this place
- speakerof peace.
- speakerI've told this story way too often,
- speakerbut it's such a great story.
- speakerAnd I'll tell it one more time.
- speakerOne day when I was spending the
- speakerday, I was exploring
- speakeraround the sanctuary.
- speakerAnd I
- speakeropened the door to a
- speakertiny little alcove
- speakerthat had a shelf.
- speakerAnd so it was turned
- speakerout to be a little kitchen that was
- speakerobviously there to prepare
- speakerCommunion. And it was, you know, it
- speakerwas a Friday and Communion was going
- speakerto be on Sunday.
- speakerAnd there those trays were
- speakerstacked up with,
- speakeryou know,
- speaker300 little
- speakerthimbles full of grape juice,
- speakerof course, and
- speakerand little white bread
- speakercrumbs.
- speakerBread cubes.
- speakerAnd they were stacked up like
- speakera mountain of mana,
- speakeryou know.
- speakerAnd so
- speakerI just thought it wouldn't hurt.
- speakerIt might be fun to be bad,
- speakereat a little cube of bread and
- speakerhave one little
- speakercup of juice.
- speakerAnd then somehow I kind
- speakerof lost my mind and I
- speakerjust ate more bread
- speakerand drank more thimbles full
- speakerof juice.
- speakerAnd of course, you know what
- speakerhappened next.
- speakerMy aunt Squeaky appeared at the
- speakerdoor, and, you know, I'm sure
- speakerI didn't. But when I told the story,
- speakerI said there I was, guilty
- speakeras sin wearing a purple
- speakermustache.
- speakerAnd, you know, she could talk about
- speakeran impending storm.
- speakerAnd I started crying I said, I know
- speakerI shouldn't have done this. She
- speakerput her arms around me
- speakerand she said,
- speakerI'll tell you what let's do.
- speakerLet's fix it all back
- speakerthe way it was.
- speakerI love you.
- speakerFirst greatest
- speakerexperience of unconditional
- speakergrace and love
- speakerin my life.
- speakerSo all these things are
- speakerjust really important.
- speakerIt's so important that,
- speakeryou know, the Mississippi
- speakerin the fifties was,
- speakeryou know, it was a totally white
- speakerworld. We had a
- speakeryou know, we had
- speakermaids that helped us.
- speakerAnd we had, you know,
- speakerliterally a yard man
- speakerwho would drive by in a wagon
- speakerand mother would, you know,
- speakerasking to push the lawn mower
- speakeror something.
- speakerBut it was totally segregated.
- speakerAnd the older I got,
- speakerthe more.
- speakerIt just
- speakerit just sort of got to me.
- speakerI remember giving Elmira who was
- speakerone of my favorite
- speakerhousekeepers, a hug
- speakerone day because there weren't a lot
- speakerof hugs at my house.
- speakerAnd mother
- speakerfussed at me later and said,
- speakeryou know, white people don't hug
- speakerBlack people.
- speakerSo all of that sort of
- speakerlived inside of me.
- speakerTo this day I'm very
- speakerclose to a friend
- speakerwho lives in Mississippi, not in
- speakerMeridian, but we
- speakerwere childhood friends,
- speakerwho is a who would say
- speakerthe same thing to this
- speakervery day.
- speakerYou know, for Black people.
- speakerSo was there a
- speakerpoint in time when
- speakeryou started to wonder about
- speakerthere were these stories that your
- speakermother told you,
- speakerwhat her grand, what her mother and
- speakerfather would do.
- speakerRight.
- speakerTo help protect
- speakerBlack people.
- speakerAnd then to be told, you don't
- speakerhug
- speakera Black person.
- speakerMy mother was that my mother
- speakerwas an extremely
- speakerloving person and she was smart.
- speakerShe she taught
- speakerFrench and Latin and all that.
- speakerShe was she
- speakerherself would
- speakernever be unkind to
- speakeranyone and would never
- speakeryou know, she would never
- speakerdo anything that was directly
- speakerracist.
- speakerBut they were people
- speakerof their time and mother
- speakerwas very conventional
- speakerin terms of
- speakerthe culture. I knew nobody who
- speakerwasn't conventional.
- speakerI mean, really, it was
- speakerjust nobody
- speakerthought integration
- speakerwas any good.
- speakerYou know, it was just this is going
- speakerto ruin everything.
- speakerBut daddy, interestingly,
- speakerworking with business people.
- speakerThis is
- speakerkind of an aside, Beth, but you'll love this. Mississippi
- speakerwas the last state
- speakerto stop being a
- speakerstatewide dry
- speakerstate.
- speakerIn the whole state.
- speakerYou couldn't sell
- speakerliquor legally.
- speakerBut here's the incredible
- speakerthing.
- speakerIf you did and of course, it was
- speakersold all over everywhere, you
- speakerhad to pay a black-market
- speakertax.
- speakerAnd the black-market tax
- speakerwas used to
- speakersupport this was the greatest
- speakersource of income for
- speakerpublic schools in the state.
- speakerAnd so there was this alliance
- speakerof the Baptists
- speakerand the bootleggers
- speakerto keep it to keep it dry.
- speakerAnyway so
- speakerdaddy hated that kind of stuff.
- speakerYou know, he was he was
- speakerprogressive when it came to things
- speakerlike that.
- speakerIn
- speakerterms of my ending up
- speakerin the ministry,
- speakerwhen I was in high school, I wanted
- speakerto be a psychiatric social
- speakerworker.
- speakerAnd I think about that now and that
- speakertickles me because, you know, I
- speakerwanted to fix my family.
- speakerGood Lord did I want to fix my
- speakerfamily that I couldn't do it.
- speakerAnd I think that's why I have such a
- speakertemper and, you know, have
- speakerthis, you know, because I
- speakergrew up so frustrated if
- speakerthey would just listen to
- speakerme.
- speakerBut of course, they wouldn't.
- speakerAnd, you know.
- speakerI wonder, there where you talked
- speakerabout your mother's stories, too,
- speakerabout her own family, if that was.
- speakerWas that her way too of showing you
- speakeran alternative way of being from
- speakerwhat you were experiencing?
- speakerI really do think so.
- speakerAnd, boy, it helped me
- speakera lot.
- speakerBut here's the thing about ministry.
- speakerWhen I was like
- speakerseven.
- speakerMother always taught
- speakerand I would come home,
- speakeryou know, usually be there by myself
- speakerfor a while.
- speakerAnd my favorite day
- speakerwas involved.
- speakerI had a little desk.
- speakerAnd it looked to my
- speakermind it resembles sort of a pull
- speakerthe pulpit at the church
- speakerand I would line all my dolls
- speakerand stuffed animals up on the bed
- speakerand I would get behind that desk
- speakerand I would preach my heart to
- speakerthem, of course, the most attentive
- speakercongregation there ever was.
- speakerOf course.
- speakerBut why would I do that?
- speakerYou know? And
- speakerI loved playing with my dolls.
- speakerYou know, I was not a
- speakeryou know, it wasn't weird,
- speakerbut it was my favorite game.
- speakerAnd what would your sermons come
- speakerfrom? Was it from the Sunday school
- speakerlesson that Sunday or what you heard
- speakerthe preacher doing or were you
- speakerpulling it from somewhere else?
- speakerWell, I did love I did love
- speakermy.
- speakerI had a great book of Bible stories
- speakerand mother or Squeaky would read
- speakerthose to me.
- speakerSo I knew a little bit, but they
- speakerjust my sermons were very
- speakerextemporaneous.
- speakerListen.
- speakerBut, you know, I
- speakerto be a minister, you
- speakerknow, but actually, I had thought
- speakerat one point about being a
- speakermissionary
- speakerand when and then I
- speakerstarted
- speakerdating a really cute boy who
- speakerrealized that, you know,
- speakerI was not really
- speakerand I thought, you know, if you were
- speakera missionary, you know,
- speakeryou had to be a certain
- speakerkind of person.
- speakerRight.
- speakerMethodist missionaries in the fifties seemed a
- speakerlittle dour shall we say.
- speakerAnd so I decided
- speakerthat I would give that
- speakercalling up. Though
- speakerhonestly, I've lived
- speakera very different life.
- speakerBut I look back on it and I would
- speakerhave have I would have I would have
- speakerloved that life, too.
- speakerI really would have.
- speakerSo I I
- speakerhad no religious ambitions
- speakerwhen, you know, I went to Emory.
- speakerAnd how did you how did you choose
- speakerEmory? You moved.
- speakerSo you you were uprooted from
- speakerMeridian and from your circle of
- speakerfriends and life to Chattanooga.
- speakerAnd how did you think of Emory
- speakerin in Atlanta for
- speakercollege?
- speakerWell a couple of reasons. A.
- speakerI was born there.
- speakerB.
- speakerIt was in Georgia.
- speakerAnd, you know, my family
- speakerwas here.
- speakerAnd
- speakerthirdly, I had two uncles
- speakerwho one who was
- speakerhead of the Poetry Society in
- speakerGeorgia and was
- speakerthe one of the founders
- speakerof Georgia State University and
- speakertaught there for years.
- speakerHis name was Bertram Holland
- speakerFlanders, and he was quite a fellow.
- speakerAnd then my Uncle Ralph
- speakertaught at NYU for
- speaker30 years taught Southern history
- speakeractually. And both of them
- speakerhad gone to Emory.
- speakerSo it was like, you know,
- speakerI didn't dream of anything outside
- speakerthe South. I didn't I didn't even
- speakerknow there was much
- speakeroutside the South.
- speakerBut I loved going to Emory, it was
- speakergreat.
- speakerBut I you know, I was a sorority
- speakergirl and I majored
- speakerin English mainly because,
- speakeryou know, I knew I could teach.
- speakerMy mother had taught all
- speakerthe women I knew had been teachers
- speakeror homemakers.
- speakerI didn't know any woman who did
- speakeranything else.
- speakerSo my goal was to, though I
- speakerloved English and I fell in love
- speakerwith John Milton,
- speakerbut I mainly majored in English so
- speakerI could read and get a grade for it.
- speakerI thought that was the most
- speakerwonderful blessing that you
- speakerknow, that what I would do naturally
- speakerI could get credit
- speakerfor.
- speakerAnd who are your favorite authors or
- speakerof what was your favorite genres to
- speakerread?
- speakerMy favorite genre
- speakergenre was
- speakerthe novel.
- speakerAnd, you know, just
- speakerback there with Moll Flanders
- speakerand, you know,
- speakeronward and onward.
- speakerAnd I still
- speakerI still I read a lot
- speakerand I really like
- speakerfiction.
- speakerBut recently I've
- speakerbeen sort
- speakerof revisiting some things.
- speakerI'm in a book club that where you
- speakerget to choose what you want to do,
- speakerwe're choosing good literature.
- speakerSo I've just reread
- speakerThe Scarlet Letter and
- speakerjust adored it.
- speakerYou know what you miss when you're
- speaker18 and you can pay attention
- speakerto when you're 72.
- speakerA real difference.
- speakerYou know, I
- speakerchose to do the discussion
- speakerof Madame Bovary because
- speakerthe last time I read it
- speakerwas when I gave was in
- speakerthe hospital, having given birth to
- speakermy first baby.
- speakerAnd what
- speakerI came home very tired from the
- speakerhospital for two reasons.
- speakerOne, I had
- speakerthe baby with me, and the
- speakerother was that I stayed up all night
- speakerreading Madame Bovary.
- speakerSo anyway,
- speakerwe married our senior year
- speakerand Al went to law school
- speakerand I taught English and creative
- speakerwriting.
- speakerAnd how did you and Al meet at
- speakerschool was it in class or through
- speakerthe sorority fraternity?
- speakerOr what was that?
- speakerI was dating
- speakera fraternity brother of Al,
- speakerand I would go to
- speakerlunch at the fraternity house
- speakersometime and
- speakerI met Al.
- speakerWe enjoyed chatting and then we
- speakerended up in the same
- speakergeology class and I despise
- speakergeology and Al has one of those
- speakerphotographic memories when you know
- speakerhe remembers everything and I
- speakercouldn't. I was trying to learn
- speakerthose tables, you know.
- speakerOh, how deadly.
- speakerAnd so he we started studying
- speakertogether and.
- speakerOne afternoon we were
- speakerI had been out with the other fellow
- speakerthe night before and
- speakerwe were studying on a Sunday
- speakerafternoon. And
- speakerAl says, you don't seem very happy.
- speakerI say, Well, no, I'm not.
- speakerYou know, I had a hard time.
- speakerDavid didn't treat me very well.
- speakerAnd this is, you know,
- speakerone of my best memories.
- speakerSo Al pushes
- speakerthis chair back from the study
- speakertable. Leans like to get something,
- speakergets a dime out of his
- speakerpocket, puts it on the table
- speakerin front of me. And he said, You
- speakerknow what I'd do?
- speakerI would go call
- speakerDavid and just tell him that,
- speakeryou know, you're sort of done. And Beth
- speakerI picked up that dime called
- speakerthat fellow.
- speakerAnd so
- speakerthat's how it happened.
- speakerAnd we just fell crazy in love.
- speakerAnd, you know, those were the days
- speakerwhen, you know, you
- speakerI don't know that we would have
- speakermarried so young if we weren't
- speakerourselves in particularly
- speakerme pretty conventional about
- speakeryou know, my personal
- speakerlife and that sort of thing.
- speakerYou know, those were the days when
- speakeryou didn't live with somebody.
- speakerAnd were you involved in a in a in a
- speakerchurch while you were in college?
- speakerWe would go I would go sometimes
- speakerto the university church, which
- speakeris Glen Memorial.
- speakerBut after we
- speakergot married, we
- speakerlooked for a church and briefly
- speakerwent to First Methodist downtown
- speakerAtlanta,
- speakerand it was so dreary.
- speakerBut you know it was Methodist and it
- speakerwas a downtown church, just
- speakeras the church was that I'd grown up
- speakerin.
- speakerAnd they were
- speakerecstatic that we were visiting
- speakerbecause everybody else was, you
- speakerknow, in the geriatric crowd.
- speakerAnd, um,
- speakerAI was invited to go to the
- speakeradministrative board meeting
- speakertrying to get him involved.
- speakerAnd, and
- speakerAI came home and said, We're
- speakernot going to that church anymore.
- speakerHe said, we talked about the budget
- speakerand the entirety
- speakerof the budget.
- speakerIt was to be directed to
- speakerothers
- speakerwas funding for 10 turkeys.
- speakerWow.
- speakerSo we stopped going to church.
- speakerThen Elizabeth was born and
- speakerwhen I was 23
- speakerand
- speakerwhen I was pregnant with Sam,
- speakerwho was born when I was 25.
- speakerI was pushing Elizabeth in a
- speakerstroller with a neighbor
- speakerwho was pushing her
- speakertoddler.
- speakerAnd I said, You know we're
- speakerjust having a hard time.
- speakerWe had tried the Unitarian Church
- speakerand that, oh, I didn't like that.
- speakerOh, I didn't like that.
- speakerBut it was good to have tried it.
- speakerWe're having a hard time finding a
- speakerchurch.
- speakerI don't know what to do.
- speakerAnd Whitney was her name.
- speakerShe said, Well, Jo,
- speakerI know a church you might like.
- speakerIt's the church we go to, actually.
- speakerNow, I'll tell you, we're getting
- speakerready to leave that congregation,
- speakerbut I thought you might like it.
- speakerAnd I said, Well, why are you
- speakerleaving?
- speakerAnd she said,
- speakerThe minister
- speakertalks all the time
- speakerabout the Vietnam War
- speakerand civil rights.
- speakerWe were there the next Sunday
- speakerand it was North Decatur
- speakerPresbyterian Church,
- speakerwhich where I was, was some
- speakerwonderful church here.
- speakerDavid Lewicki and Beth Waltemath are
- speakerthe co-pastors now.
- speakerAnd, you know,
- speakerSam was baptized there.
- speakerOur children grew up there till I
- speakerwent to Central.
- speakerI was a candidate for
- speakerthe ministry and I just felt so much
- speakerat home. And and
- speakerI started teaching a
- speakernice lady in the church called me
- speakerone day and asked me if I'd
- speakerteach a Sunday school class.
- speakerI understand you're a teacher Martha
- speakersaid.
- speakerAnd I said, yes.
- speakerAnd she said, Well, I would love
- speakerfor you to teach a class on faith
- speakerand feminism.
- speakerAnd I said, Well, my faith
- speakeris in a formative stage right
- speakernow, and I've only
- speakerread Betty Friedan's book.
- speakerThat's all I know.
- speakerShe said, Oh, good, you can
- speakereverybody can learn together.
- speakerAnd
- speakerI just loved it.
- speakerAnd the minister one Sunday went
- speakerto the center of the chancel,
- speakerand he began his benediction
- speakerby saying this.
- speakerGod's not here anymore.
- speakerWe had a date with the Almighty.
- speakerWe kept it, the
- speakerLord kept it.
- speakerBut if you want to encounter
- speakerGod,
- speakeryou're going to have to get on out
- speakerof here.
- speakerA you'll find Him
- speakerwhere people are suffering
- speakerand where people are hungry
- speakerfor food and for justice.
- speakerYou'll find Him in the
- speakerworld that
- speakerChrist came to save.
- speakerSo get on out there.
- speakerSo we picked up the babies
- speakerand got in the car,
- speakerand I just
- speakercried hysterically all
- speakerthe way home.
- speakerAnd AI thought I had lost my mind.
- speakerBut it was the turning point for
- speakerme, because that Methodist pietism
- speakeris that I have been raised in.
- speakerThe function of it was
- speakerto reassure
- speakerall the people who were
- speakerpart of the establishment that
- speakerGod was in heaven,
- speakerwho cares about the world.
- speakerAnd what matters in terms of faith
- speakeris your own relationship with God
- speakerand with Christ.
- speakerAnd actually, I think
- speakerthat does matter very deeply,
- speakerbut that isn't whole darn thing.
- speakerAnd I just loved
- speakerthe the that aspect
- speakerof, you know, our reformed
- speakerheritage that, you know,
- speakerGod is the God as John Hesseling
- speakersaid God is the God of the grand
- speakerdesign.
- speakerThe grand design.
- speakerAnd, you know,
- speakerthe spirit of God
- speakeris at the heart
- speakerof culture and creativity.
- speakerAnd I just adore that thought.
- speakerSo I went to,
- speakeryou know North Decatur's not far
- speakerfrom Columbia Seminary.
- speakerAnd so I drove out there one day,
- speakera nervous wreck saying
- speakerI wanted to learn.
- speakerI wanted to learn more about
- speakerscripture and I
- speakerwanted to learn more about theology.
- speakerI was very hungry, it was, you know
- speakerit was like it was lunchtime
- speakeror past lunchtime.
- speakerBut I didn't want to have anything
- speakerto do with, you know, any
- speakerpreparation for ministry.
- speakerAnd were you still teaching at this
- speakertime or had you?
- speakerNo, I stopped teaching when
- speakerthe children were born, so I stayed
- speakerhome.
- speakerYou know, for about five years.
- speakerUh, you know,
- speakerwhen I started seminary, Sam was
- speakerborn in 70.
- speakerI started seminary 74.
- speakerAnd
- speakeranyway, I loved,
- speakerI loved my the only
- speakercourse I could take at first
- speakerwas a a night
- speakercourse taught by a visiting
- speakerprofessor from Scotland,
- speakerDr. Ronald Wallace.
- speakerAnd the course sounds
- speakerdeadly.
- speakerIt was a course on
- speakerElisha and Elijah.
- speakerAnd so there I am, you know,
- speakerswimming around in 1 and 2
- speakerKings.
- speakerWell, I just thought
- speakernothing had been as fascinating
- speakerto me than the air of that.
- speakerYou know, it's just.
- speakerOh, I just.
- speakerI loved it.
- speakerWere you in a degree program at that
- speakertime or?
- speakerNo, I was a special student.
- speakerJust taking courses.
- speakerYeah and then, you know,
- speakerthe next year I
- speakerwent full time. Though tt took me
- speakerit took me an extra year
- speakerto graduate because I had to.
- speakerAnd, you know, the irony was, of
- speakercourse, Al's out there,
- speakeryou know,
- speakerworking his head off, you know,
- speakertrying to start his law career
- speakerand. Oh, and you know,
- speakerwhose you know, he
- speakergets up early in the morning and
- speakerhe's gone and, you know, he comes
- speakerhome when the senior partners
- speakerare through with him, you know.
- speakerAnd so it was it was
- speakera.
- speakerAnd you had babies and a home.
- speakerExactly.
- speakerSo when you
- speakeryou you felt this hunger,
- speakerthis physical and spiritual
- speakerhunger to learn more
- speakerand then decided that you wanted to
- speakerstart an MDiv program.
- speakerWhat was the response of Al?
- speakerWhat did he what did he say when you
- speakersaid, hey, I want to go get my
- speakerMDiv and maybe go into to the
- speakerministry? How did he how did he
- speakerrespond?
- speakerHe said totally
- speakerwonderful.
- speakerI mean, you know, we were
- speakerentirely different people.
- speakerYou know, we were fraternity
- speakerand sorority
- speakerboy and girl,
- speakerbut Al's
- speakeralways been he
- speakeractually one time when I was
- speakerfeeling guilty about
- speakerthe demands of ministry
- speakerwhen I was at Central and the kids
- speakerand all that,
- speakerI said, you know, I really changed
- speakerscripts on you, you
- speakerknow, I was going to
- speakerjoin the League of Women Voters and
- speakerand just be,
- speakeryou know, a traditional woman.
- speakerAnd he said, no, you weren't.
- speakerI didn't know what it was going to
- speakerbe, but I knew that that
- speakerwouldn't be enough for you.
- speakerAnd I was just interested in seeing
- speakerhow it was going to go and where you
- speakerwere going to go. And he thought
- speakerthat was great, and we
- speakerreally just had a wonderful time
- speakertogether.
- speakerOf course, I couldn't move from
- speakerAtlanta and
- speakerthe except for my
- speakerill-starred sojourn to Chicago.
- speakerWe'll get there.
- speakerBut,
- speakeryou know, I you know,
- speakerI honestly,
- speakerin that when I was at Trinity here
- speakerin the nineties,
- speakerI had my secretary
- speakerhad a form
- speakerletter that she would,
- speakerof course, retype every time,
- speakerbut I would get as many like every
- speakerweek or so I'd get an inquiry
- speakerfrom from a church somewhere,
- speakeryou know, from California to
- speakerNew York or whatever.
- speakerAnd I would just say
- speakerbring the letter and, you
- speakerknow, I would edit it for the
- speakeroccasion because it just,
- speakeryou know, had many, many
- speakeropportunities to
- speakerdo other things.
- speakerBut, you know, AI was
- speakerour primary breadwinner and
- speakerhis his vocation is
- speakeras important as mine.
- speakerSo that was
- speakerokay.
- speakerHow about at your church?
- speakerUm, you know, in the early
- speakerseventies, there weren't a lot of
- speakerwomen in ministry.
- speakerDid you have other were
- speakerthere other women out there that you
- speakersaw as, as pastors
- speakerthat were were examples
- speakerto you were there
- speakerthat you could turn to?
- speakerDid your church say, this is
- speakerfantastic when you when you had the
- speakercall?
- speakerYes.
- speakerWhat was the response of you?
- speakerBecause it was North Decatur's a
- speakervery progressive church.
- speakerBut I had never heard
- speakera woman preach when I went to
- speakerseminary. I'd actually never heard
- speakera woman pray in public.
- speakerBut I knew there were women who were
- speakerministers.
- speakerAnd,
- speakeryou know, that was when
- speakerthe PCUS headquarters
- speakerwas here on 341
- speakerPonce de Leon.
- speakerAnd so there were several women
- speakerwho were ministers who worshiped
- speakerwith our congregation.
- speakerAnd when I went to Columbia, the
- speakeronly female professor
- speakerwas Catherine Gonzalez.
- speakerAnd she was great.
- speakerYou know, she she would
- speakerhave us over and
- speakerand, you know, she'd been through
- speakerit all.
- speakerAnd, you know, she was just very,
- speakeryou know, Catherine's anything but
- speakermushy, but she was just very
- speakerpastoral and supportive to
- speakerus. And, you know, there
- speakerwere some good folks, Sally,
- speakersomebody who's been in Mississippi,
- speakera wonderful minister, and
- speakerJoyce Tucker.
- speakerAnd, you know there were, I wasn't
- speakerthe only one, but when
- speakerI was called to Central to
- speakerthis position.
- speakerI was the first woman
- speakerin Atlanta Presbytery
- speakerto be called to a full
- speakertime ordained
- speakerposition.
- speakerThere were many women who
- speakerwere on church staffs.
- speakerBut every one of them was what
- speakerwas called an assistant
- speakerminister. Because.
- speakerServing at the pleasure of the pastor.
- speakerRight. And no benefits.
- speakerSo what was your
- speakerexamine examination like
- speakeron the floor of the presbytery?
- speakerDo you remember that?
- speakerYes, I do. I remember being an
- speakerabsolute nervous wreck
- speakerand, you know, turned out fine.
- speakerBut honestly, I thought I was going
- speakerto throw up.
- speakerIt was so funny, you know, because
- speakerI don't know just
- speakera very kind of negative
- speakerself consciousness
- speakerthat,
- speakeryou know, that's
- speakerbeen a demon that I've
- speakeralways wrestled with.
- speakerYou know, I'm and I'm
- speakerjust thinking about,
- speakeryou know, good friends,
- speakermen who are ministers.
- speakerAnd I honestly don't think
- speakerthey go through
- speakerthat kind of, you
- speakerknow, sit on your shoulder.
- speakerIs your sermon going to measure
- speakerup?
- speakerAnd I found that, you know, I had to
- speakerbe you
- speakerknow, I
- speakerhave to be ten times better
- speakerthan almost anybody else.
- speakerYou have to be unusual.
- speakerAnd that that's been a hard
- speakerstandard to
- speakerkeep up.
- speakerAnd
- speakerit's.
- speakerIt's been costly.
- speakerDo you feel it's shifted and changed
- speakerover time?
- speakerI do. I've gotten.
- speakerI've gotten.
- speakerI've got more
- speakerself-confidence.
- speakerI mean, I don't think anybody in the
- speakerworld would think I didn't have
- speakerself-confidence.
- speakerBut, you know, I do.
- speakerAnd I don't
- speakerknow.
- speakerAnd do you think that's mostly your
- speakerinternal sense of self, or
- speakerdo you think that there's more
- speakeracceptance in
- speakerthe church now for women in
- speakerleadership positions?
- speakerBoth things are true.
- speakerBoth things are true.
- speakerAnd, you know, I have a
- speakerI guess it was after I'd been at
- speakerTrinity a year or two.
- speakerAnd Trinity is a very formidable
- speakercongregation, a wonderful
- speakercongregation.
- speakerBut good Lord,
- speakerI was there about 11
- speakeryears and somebody asked me,
- speakerWhat would you say about your time
- speakerat Trinity and
- speakerI've said, Well,
- speakerit was like dancing with
- speakera big beautiful bear.
- speakerDeep commitment to excellence
- speakerthere. Are you as smart
- speakeras Allison Williams,
- speakerwho is the founder of the church?
- speakerSee I'd followed him and
- speakerhe'd been there 42 years.
- speakerAnd finally, you know,
- speakerthat people began to realize that,
- speakeryou know, there were there were
- speakerapples and there were oranges and,
- speakeryou know, I had the congregation
- speakerdoubled in size when I was there,
- speakerthe budget doubled
- speakeror more in size.
- speakerWhen I got there, there were maybe
- speaker30 kids around.
- speakerWhen I left, there were 500.
- speakerYou know, it was and we had
- speakertwo capital campaigns.
- speakerWe raised a total
- speakerof 25 million dollars when I
- speakerwas there.
- speakerAnd
- speakerthe congregation was horrified
- speakerand stunned when I said I'm going to
- speakergo to
- speakerChicago.
- speakerBut, you know, you can wrestle with
- speakerthe bear only so long.
- speakerSo I'm reminded that, because there are all these wonderful angles to go.
- speakerBut on, talked
- speakerabout being a child and church was
- speakera place where you felt safe.
- speakerAnd growing up in the Methodist
- speakerpietism where it
- speakerwas are you, you know, is your soul
- speakerright with God?
- speakerIt
- speakersounds like you you and
- speakerAl had had social concerns
- speakerfor justice.
- speakerWere you involved in in
- speakerprotest against the Vietnam War or
- speakerfor civil rights at all in your
- speakerin your teens or early twenties?
- speakerNot until we became Presbyterian.
- speakerWe yearned to be,
- speakeryou know, we were.
- speakerIt was, you know, we.
- speakerEverything was so.
- speakerYou know, we got married when we
- speakerwere 21.
- speakerWe'd had two babies by the time we
- speakerwere 25.
- speakerLaw school, you know,
- speakerjust all of that
- speakerwas you know, we we
- speakerweren't. But then I,
- speakeryou know, thanks to North Decatur.
- speakerI mean, it's amazing how little
- speakerthings,
- speakeryou know.
- speakerWe we had a
- speakerwe helped create
- speakera daycare center in a very
- speakerpoor African-American neighborhood
- speakerin DeKalb County called Scottdale.
- speakerAnd just going around with those
- speakerkids, you know, saying, oh, my
- speakergosh, you know, Elizabeth
- speakerAdams is sitting at home,
- speakeryou know, being read to three times
- speakera day. And these kids,
- speakernobody's told them that those green
- speakerround things on their plate are
- speakerpeas.
- speakerWe did, we had a prison ministry.
- speakerWe we resettled
- speakerrefugees, Laotians and
- speakerVietnamese.
- speakerAnd I mean, here we were with our
- speakerlittle kiddos and and,
- speakeryou know, we were in charge
- speakerof the and we had two house
- speakerlittle houses, the brown house and
- speakerthe gray house.
- speakerAnd we refugee families
- speakerlived there.
- speakerAnd, oh, that was such an
- speakerhonor, you know, to get to
- speakerknow those people.
- speakerAnd,
- speakeryou know, I'll never forget when
- speakerthe grandfather in one of our
- speakerfamilies passed away
- speakerand Al went to Turner's Funeral
- speakerHome to
- speakerask if
- speakerwe could honor
- speakerthat family
- speakerby setting up
- speakerthe room in
- speakerthe Buddhist way.
- speakerAnd Mr. Turner said,
- speakerWell, of course you can. Isn't that swell?
- speakerAnd then I went to Central
- speakergah-lee.
- speakerI marched we
- speakervigils against the death penalty.
- speakerJerry Falwell stood on
- speakerthe steps
- speakerof the State Capital, spewing
- speakerone of those horrible
- speakerspeeches that he made all around
- speakerthe country, just right across
- speakerthe street,
- speakerjust denigrating gay people
- speakerand feminists.
- speakerAnd, you know.
- speakerI testified in
- speakerCongress about
- speakerhomelessness.
- speakerWe started the first homeless
- speakershelter.
- speakerThe first well, there was a teeny
- speakerlittle one at Clifton Presbyterian.
- speakerAnd when there were so many people
- speakerthat needed
- speakera place. I was at
- speakerCentral.
- speakerWe started the really good
- speakershelter that
- speakerwas the sort of mother of
- speakerall the rest and
- speakersoup kitchens.
- speakerAnd I remember
- speakergoing in and talking to Buddy Innis
- speakerwho was senior pastor and a
- speakerwonderful man.
- speakerYou know, we need to do this, Buddy.
- speakerIt was February
- speakerand we need to do it now.
- speakerAnd I'm just thinking
- speakerthat maybe we could go ahead
- speakerand start the shelter
- speakerand then get
- speakerit going. And then
- speakersee what the session says
- speakerand I said, it's a real
- speakercrisis.
- speakerAnd Buddy and I recall that when
- speakerDr. King was assassinated, Central
- speakerwas ground zero.
- speakerPeople came from all over everywhere
- speakerand slept on the floors.
- speakerSo we have a precedent
- speakerin responding to a crisis.
- speakerSo I got I founded the homeless
- speakertask force in Atlanta and
- speakertestified one of my passions
- speakerwas about bathrooms.
- speakerI testified about
- speakerpublic bathrooms.
- speakerAnd so I,
- speakeryou know, not to, I'm
- speakernot saying this to pat myself
- speakeron the back, but
- speakerAndrew Young was mayor.
- speakerAnd last year
- speakerI was asked to speak at
- speakera breakfast
- speakerfor the United Negro College Fund,
- speakerand Andrew Young was there and he
- speakerwas to speak to
- speakerand we've remained friends across
- speakerthe years,
- speakerand he told us, and he's 85
- speakernow, he he stood
- speakerup and said, I'm always proud
- speakerto see Joanna and I want to tell
- speakeryou about what happened.
- speakerOne day she appeared
- speakerat at City Hall
- speakerat my office with
- speakerabout 15 people behind
- speakerher.
- speakerAnd I thought, oh, Lord,
- speakerhere comes momma to give me a
- speakerswitching.
- speakerBecause I was always pushing on him
- speakerto do a little better with
- speakerhomelessness.
- speakerAnd he
- speakersaid, So
- speakeryou came in and I was
- speakerready to take my punishment.
- speakerAnd you said, Mayor Young, let's
- speakertalk about how
- speakertogether we can
- speakermake Atlanta
- speakerbetter for our homeless
- speakerfriends.
- speakerAnd he said that was
- speakerthat was maybe
- speakerthe sweetest day I was mayor,
- speakerbecause I just thought, you know,
- speakerwe're going to have righteous
- speakerprotests
- speakerand, you know,
- speakerneither he nor anybody
- speakerelse who's worked on homelessness in
- speakerAtlanta has fixed any of it.
- speakerAnd I honestly, Beth, we
- speakerhad the shelter, which was a
- speakerwonderful ecumenical
- speakershelter,
- speakerstill exists by the way,
- speakerand we were doing the homeless
- speakertaskforce,
- speakerthis was like 83.
- speakerAnd I honestly thought
- speakerthat if we could put the business
- speakerpeople, the church people,
- speakerthe synagogue people
- speakerand the
- speakercity hall together, we
- speakerreally could, you
- speakerknow, get this
- speakerthing tackled.
- speakerIt seemed like the harder we worked,
- speakerthe worse it got.
- speakerAnd I almost had a.
- speakerI wouldn't say I had a breakdown,
- speakerbut I took it
- speakerat least a two month leave
- speakerof absence because I was so
- speakerfrustrated
- speakerand felt
- speakerdefeated, you know, that
- speakerwhole idea. If you just get good
- speakerpeople together, good things can
- speakerhappen. Well, that was the end of
- speakermy liberalism.
- speakerAnd one
- speakerperson who helped me tremendously
- speakerwas Tim McDonald, who is
- speakerhead of Concerned Black Clergy and
- speakervery kind of rabble rouser.
- speakerFabulous, wonderful guy.
- speakerI always teased him saying,
- speakerYou never met a microphone
- speakeror a bullhorn you didn't
- speakerlike.
- speakerHe said, Joanna,
- speakeryou know, you you're
- speakernot going to make it if you keep
- speakerdoing it this way.
- speakerHe said, you
- speakeraren't going to bring in the
- speakerKingdom.
- speakerAnd I'm not either.
- speakerAnd if you think it's all
- speakeron you,
- speakerthen you're going to
- speakergive out or break down or whatever.
- speakerYou know God's in charge of the
- speakerKingdom.
- speakerWe do what we can
- speakerand trust that the day will come.
- speakerI love the word proleptic.
- speakerAnd, you know,
- speakerthis side of the dark
- speakerglass
- speakeryou you you
- speakerlive as if
- speakerwhat you hope for
- speakerhas already come to be.
- speakerRight.
- speakerAnd that has helped me so much.
- speakerYou know,
- speakerI had a friend, Sister
- speakerJoan, a
- speakerCatholic nun whose passion
- speakerwas the
- speakeradmittance of women
- speakerinto the priesthood.
- speakerAnd I said, well, if that
- speakerisn't enough to,
- speakeryou know, make you jump
- speakerin the river, you know,
- speakertalk about butting your head against
- speakerthe wall.
- speakerAnd she is the most irenic
- speakerway, she just smiled
- speakerand said, Oh,
- speakerI know it's not going to happen
- speakerin my lifetime or
- speakerthe next,
- speakerbut one day it will happen.
- speakerAnd I will know.
- speakerAnd I'll be so grateful
- speakerthat I just did my part when
- speakerI could.
- speakerThat helped me too.
- speakerSo. So how has your, um,
- speakerhow, how do you think you fulfill
- speakeryour understanding of God
- speakerand and humanity's
- speakerrole that in.
- speakerIn relation to God's world in
- speakerGod's kingdom have has shifted
- speakerand changed over the years?
- speakerIn light of all of this.
- speakerWork and experience you've had.
- speakerI'll try to answer that by giving
- speakeran analogy.
- speakerA few years ago, there was a Matisse
- speakerexhibit at the High Museum right
- speakeracross the street.
- speakerAnd I rarely do this, but I went
- speakerto see that exhibit by myself.
- speakerIt was a had a morning off
- speakerand just thought that would be good
- speakerfor my soul.
- speakerAnd the
- speakerthe museum had
- speakersome of the exhibit chronologically,
- speakerso Matisse
- speakerstarts with,
- speakeryou know, he's in this
- speakerkind of closed
- speakerschool end
- speakerof the 19th century,
- speakervery just
- speakerconventional.
- speakerAnd then as his
- speakerpainting progresses,
- speakerthe shadows sort of fall away.
- speakerBeauty and color.
- speakerAnd at the end of the exhibit
- speakerare all the
- speakerliturgical garments
- speakerthat he had made that are just
- speakerhuge and beautiful and displayed
- speakerall the time in a
- speakerchapel at Nice, which I got on.
- speakerWe got on the plane and went to see
- speakerthem there, too.
- speakerBut so you you come
- speakerjust sort of with your little box.
- speakerAnd then what's
- speakerhappened to me is
- speakerthat I've been more
- speakerand more and more opened
- speakerup.
- speakerSo that
- speakerall the things I care about
- speakerin terms of my friendships
- speakerand interfaith work.
- speakerTo me, as Jim
- speakerFowler would say that the highest
- speakerlevel of spiritual
- speakermaturity in his stages of spiritual
- speakermaturity.
- speakerNot many people get that year, and
- speakerI'm still not quite there.
- speakerBut it's where you know who you are.
- speakerYou are grounded
- speakerin your faith
- speakerand in the traditions
- speakerthat are behind
- speakeryou.
- speakerBut you have no need
- speakerto make the people around you
- speakerreflect who you are.
- speakerIn fact, you are
- speakerable to understand
- speakeryour own faith
- speakerso much clearer
- speakerwhen you are in
- speakerthe company of people
- speakerwhom you know and respect
- speakerwho who understand it,
- speakerthat huge reality
- speakerdifferently.
- speakerWithout a doubt, the most meaningful
- speakerthing I've done
- speakerin the last ten years
- speakerhas been to be a part of
- speakerHigher Ground,
- speakerwhich was
- speakera five year project
- speakerthat was put together by the
- speakerCommunity Foundation of
- speakerGreater Atlanta.
- speakerIt was it the seed
- speakerfor it came when I retired
- speakerand there was a nice party
- speakerand
- speakerthere were too many speakers.
- speakerBut three of them were
- speakermy 40
- speakeryear friend,
- speakerAlvin Sugarman was great Rabbi
- speakerof our Temple, though he's retired
- speakernow.
- speakerJoe Roberts, who was
- speakerpastor of Ebenezer Baptist for
- speaker30 years.
- speakerSucceeding King
- speakerand Plemon El-Amin who was imam of a
- speakervery,
- speakervery fine masjid here and
- speakerthey all said
- speakersomething briefly.
- speakerThey are friends with one another
- speakerand they're friends with me.
- speakerAnd, you know, we've just
- speakerknown each other and done things
- speakertogether. I actually had
- speakerI had all three of them preach at
- speakerTrinity. I mean, I had an imam
- speakerpreach at Trinity in 1994.
- speakerThe criticism was,
- speakeryou know, I didn't come to church to
- speakerI came to church to hear the gospel
- speakerof Jesus Christ.
- speakerI said, well come next Sunday and
- speakeryou'll hear it.
- speakerBut this was kind of gospel-ly
- speakerwasn't it and that we
- speakerrealize that all human
- speakerbeings are made in the image of God?
- speakerWhat was their response?
- speakerThey forgave me.
- speakerYou know.
- speakerThat's good.
- speakerBut so Alicia
- speakerPhilipp, who's head of the Community
- speakerFoundation was there.
- speakerAnd about a month later she
- speakersent all of us an email saying,
- speakerwe need a religious voice in
- speakerAtlanta. We don't hear one as
- speakermuch as we used to.
- speakerSo for five years, we
- speakerwent all over the
- speakereverywhere and spoke.
- speakerAnd, you know, when we spoke
- speakerat Georgia State, we had
- speakerlike 750
- speakerpeople came to hear us.
- speakerAnd then we went to a
- speakercounty just south of Atlanta.
- speakerAnd that was the first time
- speakerit was on the front page of the
- speakerpaper the next day that there'd
- speakerbeen a Muslim
- speakerin the sanctuary
- speakerof First Presbyterian McDonough,
- speakerGeorgia.
- speakerSo I loved that and
- speakerI adored Joe Roberts.
- speakerI was very close to him
- speakergoing way back.
- speakerI mean, Al was the attorney who
- speakerwhen they adopted their son,
- speakeryou know, we've known them since we
- speakerwere in our early twenties.
- speakerAnd when Joe died, it was very
- speakerdevastating.
- speakerBut his death and then
- speakerthe rabbi has
- speakera form of leukemia that
- speakerhe has to manage.
- speakerAnd he's like 76
- speakeror 77.
- speakerSo we decided
- speakerthat what was in
- speakerthe foundation did that the unique
- speakerthing about our writing
- speakerand our presentations was our
- speakerfriendship.
- speakerYou know, if we did nothing else,
- speakerI used to think it doesn't matter.
- speakerWe could just, you know, say nursery
- speakerrhymes.
- speakerBut the fact that there are the four
- speakerof us who clearly
- speakerare genuine friends, and
- speakerit's not that we agreed on
- speakereverything we we didn't
- speakeragree on everything for sure.
- speakerThe interestingly,
- speakerthe
- speakermost delicate
- speakerand controversial thing that really
- speakergot our people's
- speakerblood pressure up the four of us was
- speakerIsrael and Palestine.
- speakerThe imam.
- speakerI can imagine.
- speakerIs an avid
- speakerbut you know, that's a real
- speakerrelationship when you
- speakercan be real with one another.
- speakerAnd would you have when you were
- speakerwhen you were having your dialogs
- speakerand conversations
- speakertogether in public, would you have
- speakerthose conversations to show
- speakerthat you didn't necessarily agree on
- speakeran Israel and Palestine, or did you
- speakerjust keep out of them?
- speakerNo, we.
- speakerWe would always meet.
- speakerWe met like once a month for a
- speakercouple of hours and
- speakerjust would chew stuff over
- speakerand let's say we're going to the
- speakertemple.
- speakerYou know what would be a beginning
- speakertopic? And then we would get
- speakerquestions from the
- speakerfrom the audience and then we would
- speakerhave a conversation
- speakeramong us
- speakerso that, you know, Cleveland says,
- speakeryou know, God is.
- speakerSo and so.
- speakerAlvin and I got into one of
- speakerthe Oh, this is so interesting
- speakerto me.
- speakerI really do like the
- speakerthough I know it isn't perfect, but
- speakerI really do like the idea
- speakerof the sovereignty of God
- speakerthat, you know,
- speakerthis is our father, our mother's
- speakerworld.
- speakerAnd I made that point
- speakerand Alvin said,
- speakerWell, Joanna, if you're right about
- speakerthat, I don't want to have a darn
- speakerthing to do with your God.
- speakerAnd I said, Wow.
- speakerHe said,
- speakerI just think of the number
- speaker6 million
- speakerand if God is in charge,
- speakerwhy does such
- speakera massive tragedy
- speakeroccur? And not only that one,
- speakerbut the others.
- speakerAnd I said,
- speakeryou know, I start to go into
- speakerfreedom and all that.
- speakerAnd he said,
- speakerWell, I'll tell you what I think, after I'd mumbled and
- speakerstumbled around a little bit.
- speakerHe said,
- speakerI look at it this way.
- speakerThere's a creator.
- speakerThe world was created.
- speakerHumans were created.
- speakerAnd the creator says, I'm
- speakergiving it to you.
- speakerIt's up to you what you do with it.
- speakerThat was a good conversation.
- speakerI've had a very rich and
- speakerinteresting life
- speakerand meaningful
- speakerministry. It's been
- speakerand many mornings when I wake
- speakerup and think, no
- speakermatter what happens today,
- speakerif not today's
- speakerthe day my life will end I'm just
- speakerfilled
- speakerup with gratitude.
- speakerI can't imagine that little
- speakergirl preaching to her
- speakerdolls, having
- speakerbeen blessed and just knowing
- speakerso many fabulous people and
- speakerthe congregations that I've served.
- speakerI've loved being a pastor.
- speakerAnd I love
- speakerthose moments when,
- speakeryou know, I just have the sense that
- speakerI am
- speakera conduit.
- speakerBut there is a message coming
- speakerfrom another realm.
- speakerAnd somehow I got to be
- speakertoday at least a conduit
- speakerof realities
- speakerthat can
- speakerchange everything.
- speakerOh, that's so good.
- speakerDon't you feel that way?
- speakerYeah. Sometimes.
- speakerSometimes.
- speakerCertainly not all
- speakerthe time.
- speakerSometimes it's Oh, Lord, why am I
- speakerhere?
- speakerYes, yes, yes.
- speakerSo I'm
- speakerI'm I'm going to take
- speakeryou the next
- speakeryou know, these these interfaith
- speakerconversations echo in
- speakersome ways that the conversations you
- speakerhad in the church
- speakerwith people who were on
- speakerthe different theological planes,
- speakertrying to find ways
- speakerto find commonalities
- speakerso that we could keep the church
- speakerfrom tearing apart in this 40
- speakeryear struggle over fully,
- speakerincluding LGBTQ
- speakerPresbyterians in leadership and
- speakerin ordained leadership and then for
- speakermarriage.
- speakerAnd I'm curious how you got involved
- speakerwith with with that struggle.
- speakerWhat led you to see that
- speakeras a as one of your justice issues
- speakerthat you wanted to participate in
- speakerand take a leadership role in?
- speakerThere was a young woman who visited
- speakerCentral when I was just
- speakerstarting out.
- speakerShe came to see me
- speakertroubled.
- speakerShe'd grown up in a very
- speakerconservative family in a
- speakerconservative church,
- speakerand her family had sent her
- speakeraway to
- speakerI want to say it was L'Abri
- speakersomeplace in
- speakerSwitzerland or somewhere where,
- speakeryou know, you go and you get
- speakertransformed if you're
- speakerhaving homosexual
- speakertendencies.
- speakerAnd so she'd been there and she'd
- speakercome back and she says,
- speakeryou know, I'm really nothing
- speakerchanged.
- speakerI realize now that I'm home
- speakerand I don't see how God can
- speakerlove me.
- speakerI mean, she I mean, you
- speakerknow, she that's where she was.
- speakerYou know, I'm
- speakersure I displease God, but I don't
- speakerI'm helpless.
- speakerSo I got her with another
- speakertherapist. But she, you know, she
- speakerkept talking to me.
- speakerShe obviously liked and respected
- speakerme.
- speakerAnd but she kept sort
- speakerof going downhill.
- speakerAnd one day after she'd been
- speakerto my office, she went
- speakerhome and got
- speakera gun and shot herself.
- speakerShe didn't die, but she was pretty
- speakerwounded on
- speakerall levels.
- speakerBut that
- speakerterrible experience so
- speakerit became a crucible for her
- speakerto realize
- speakerthat. she was
- speakerwho she was and
- speakershe met someone.
- speakerAnd they've been together
- speakernow 30,
- speaker35 years.
- speakerYears pass.
- speakerShe is now working
- speakerat AID Atlanta.
- speakerAnd she called me and she I'd just
- speakergone to Trinity.
- speakerI mean, it was like October and I'd
- speakergone to Trinity at the end of
- speakerAugust.
- speakerAnd she said, I'm wondering
- speakerif you would be willing
- speakerto have a service of hope
- speakerand healing for people with AIDS
- speakerat Trinity.
- speakerOh,
- speakerdammit Catherine I just got here, it
- speakerwas 1991.
- speakerOh,
- speakershe said, I know, I know.
- speakerI said,
- speakerI've got to do it.
- speakerWe got to do it, we can't not do it.
- speakerAnd she chuckled and she said,
- speakerI was hoping you'd say that.
- speakerI was counting on you.
- speakerAnd now, tell you the surprise,
- speakerDesmond Tutu is going to be
- speakerspeaking.
- speakerAnd we had this great
- speakerinterfaith service.
- speakerAnd Desmond Tutu spoke and the
- speakersanctuary was
- speakerpacked to the gills.
- speakerAnd it was just a
- speakermagnificent thing.
- speakerAt Central,
- speakerso many members
- speakerthere. This was, you know,
- speakersort of the Bill Clinton-y deal.
- speakerWe all know you're gay and you know
- speakeryou're gay, but we're not ever going
- speakerto talk about your being gay.
- speakerAnd, you know, we were sort of
- speakermoving as a society
- speakerbeyond that.
- speakerAnd yeah, my heart
- speakerjust went out to gay people.
- speakerAnd Catherine, you
- speakerknow that if the church
- speakerhas communicated to this
- speakerexcellent person, you're
- speakera piece of trash,
- speakerthen something is deeply,
- speakerhorribly wrong with
- speakerthe church.
- speakerSo
- speakertime passes.
- speakerAnd our wonderful daughter,
- speakerElizabeth several
- speakeryears later comes
- speakerback to Atlanta for my mother's
- speakerfuneral, actually.
- speakerAnd she and Al and I are sitting
- speakeroutside late
- speakerone afternoon and Elizabeth says,
- speakerI'm moving.
- speakerShe lives in L.A.
- speakerShe was living then I think, in
- speakerNorth Hollywood.
- speakerI said oh okay where she had an
- speakerapartment there.
- speakerI said are you staying in North
- speakerHollywood or are you going she said I'm moving to so and so.
- speakerSo I said, Well, that
- speakersounds fun.
- speakerDo you know anybody in that area?
- speakerShe said, Well, yes,
- speakerthe person that I'm going to be
- speakerliving with.
- speakerHer name is Teresa
- speakerand she's more than a roommate.
- speakerWell, there you go.
- speakerThere you go.
- speakerAl and I were probably
- speakernot as surprised as it
- speakersounds as if we were.
- speakerElizabeth had dated in
- speakerhigh school.
- speakerVery smart, totally wonderful
- speakerperson, Elizabeth Adams.
- speakerBut here she was.
- speakerAnd we, of course,
- speakerembraced her.
- speakerAnd from that moment on,
- speakerI didn't realize
- speakerat the time sort
- speakerof the shock
- speakerof getting used to it because,
- speakeryou know, back to conventional,
- speakerit's a lot about me that's
- speakerconventional. I've been married 50
- speakeryears.
- speakerI've you know, there's a lot
- speakerabout me that's not but a lot about
- speakerme that is. And particularly as a
- speakerwoman, you know, and I
- speakerdo all these weddings and here comes
- speakerthe beautiful bride
- speakerin her wedding dress in the arm
- speakerof her father that, remember, this
- speakerwas the nineties, not now.
- speakerAnd, you know, just my wedding
- speakerdress was upstairs you know waiting
- speakerfor Elizabeth to wear it in the
- speakerattic, you know, that kind of thing.
- speakerSo you had the,
- speakeryou know, I grieved over
- speakerI grieved over
- speakerthe fact that, you know,
- speakerwe were going to she
- speakerwas put in this world in a
- speakerin a way that she is.
- speakerAnd
- speakerat the time I was I'd been in
- speakerseveral ministers' groups I was a
- speakergroup with
- speakerBob Bohl, John Buchanan,
- speakera very, very close friend
- speakerof John's.
- speakerAnd.
- speakerI won't go into naming names,
- speakerbut, you know, just a lot of
- speakerexcellent leaders in the church.
- speakerBoth.
- speakerYou know, headquarters
- speakerand in parishes
- speakerand around.
- speakerJust knew we could not bring
- speakerthe field open
- speakerto the Presbyterian Lay Committee.
- speakerNo, we don't need to start another
- speakergroup. That's, you know, that's not
- speakerthe Presbyterian way.
- speakerBut we became
- speakerconvinced that if we didn't
- speakerstop the tanks,
- speakerthey were going to mow down
- speakereverybody in their way, everybody
- speakerwho was gay or
- speakeranything.
- speakerSo we formed the Covenant Network.
- speakerAnd, you know, I was one of the
- speakerfounders and
- speakerended up being,
- speakerI think, the second
- speakerno, maybe the
- speakersecond or third,
- speakeryou know, co moderators with Gene
- speakerBay.
- speakerAnd,
- speakeryou know, we just felt as if
- speakerwe all have a role to play
- speakerdifferent groups.
- speakerSome are more
- speakerradicalized or
- speakerhave different strategies, but
- speakerwe thought that we might give
- speakersome because all of us
- speakerwere pretty much respected people
- speakerin the denomination that
- speakerwe might give a help with
- speakerwith the credence,
- speakeryou know?
- speakerYou know, this isn't just about
- speakerfar out.
- speakerThis is about us.
- speakerIt's about our families.
- speakerIt's about our friends.
- speakerIt's about justice.
- speakerBut I just loved the Covenant
- speakerNetwork and I adored Pam.
- speakerAnd I really was kind of the leader
- speakerdown here in Georgia.
- speakerAnd thank God I was at Trinity
- speakerand Trinity was great.
- speakerI remember saying,
- speakeryou know, I
- speakerwant to suggest that we support the
- speakerCovenant Network.
- speakerAnd, you know, let's start by giving
- speakerthem, I don't know, 5,000 dollars.
- speakerAnd one of the elders stood up and
- speakersaid, Madam moderator,
- speakerI reject that idea.
- speakerI would like to say that we give
- speakerthe Covenant Network 10,000 dollars
- speakerand that whole session.
- speakerAnd the church, of course, did not
- speakeragree with me.
- speakerYou know, not every I'd say it was
- speakerhalf and half, but I always,
- speakerBeth, when preached about it or
- speakerspoke about it I
- speakeralways imagined
- speakera congregation that consisted
- speakerof people who I loved,
- speakerwho I knew were at a totally
- speakerdifferent place.
- speakerAnd so I never stepped on.
- speakerI really saw and still
- speakersee my my,
- speakerthe place I come
- speakeras being a bridge builder
- speakerin the church and
- speakerin society.
- speakerOf course, there isn't even a bridge
- speakerto build in so many ways now.
- speakerBut I was always I didn't
- speakerwant to protest the business
- speakercommunity. I wanted to co-op
- speakerthe business community about
- speakerhomelessness.
- speakerAnd I didn't want to say to some of
- speakermy favorite parishioners at
- speakerTrinity, Well, you're just
- speakerlousy slugs for
- speakernot being with it.
- speakerAnd, you know, I've just it's
- speakerjust been a
- speakerreal blessing.
- speakerNow, I'm not connected with
- speakerit.
- speakerYeah, I have.
- speakerI'm of the opinion,
- speakerand I know it's not politically
- speakercorrect now.
- speakerBut it was we were
- speakerformed for one purpose
- speakerto maintain the unity of the church
- speakerand to get the amendment
- speakerout of the Book of Order.
- speakerAnd I think to, you know, go
- speakerbroader and work on
- speakervarious things.
- speakerI would not I would not just
- speakerit's not that I don't think those
- speakerthings should be worked on.
- speakerBut I just feel like it's sort of
- speakerchanging the original covenant.
- speakerAnd in the late nineties and early
- speaker2000s, you were part of
- speakerconversations. And Joe Small in the
- speakerOffice of Worship and Theology,
- speakerhelped organize
- speakerthe head folks like you.
- speakerAnd then on the other side you had
- speakerJack Haberer and
- speakerJerry Andrews.
- speakerOh yeah.
- speakerSo you had this bringing together
- speakerpeople who were who were who took
- speakerseriously how do we keep the church
- speakertogether, even though we don't
- speakertheologically see things?
- speakerAnd if I'm
- speakerright, most of those pastors have
- speakerall remain within the congregation,
- speakerwithin the denomination.
- speakerI think that's right.
- speakerWhat were those conversations like
- speakerand what fruit do you see
- speakermight have been born out of them?
- speakerWhat this whole country needs so
- speakerdesperately now
- speakerthat you are not a monster.
- speakerAnd I'm
- speakernot a monster.
- speakerYou
- speakerget to understand one
- speakeranother's worldview.
- speakerYou know, I was on
- speakerthe committee that wrote
- speakerthe brief statement of faith that
- speakerwas such a wonderful
- speakerexperience chaired by Jack Stotts
- speakerand Jane Dempsey.
- speakerThat was gah-lee was great.
- speakerAnd there was a fellow on the
- speakercommittee named Doug Harper, very
- speakerconservative pastor from
- speakerTexas. And I haven't kept up
- speakerwith Doug, but we
- speakerwere together for eight years, and
- speakerhe actually helped me get over
- speakera panic attack I
- speakerhad on the
- speakersteps going up to the big slide
- speakerat Mo-Ranch.
- speakerSo it was the General Assembly.
- speakerWe always went to the General
- speakerAssembly and we were chatting
- speakerin the hall and, you know, the
- speakerthe the fellows
- speakerwho were even above Jerry
- speakerAndrews, you know, the ultimate
- speakerconservatives were all coming by
- speakerand speaking to Doug and Doug would
- speakerintroduce me and I said, gah-lee,
- speakerI feel like I'm,
- speakeryou know, meeting, you know,
- speakereverybody on the
- speakerFBI's most wanted list.
- speakerYou know, you
- speakermust be a popular man.
- speakerAnd Doug said
- speakerthey see me talking to you
- speakerand they want to
- speakerconnect with you
- speakerbecause they don't trust
- speakeror like you.
- speakerAnd I said.
- speakerWell, I don't know what
- speakerto do about that.
- speakerAnd he said, Well, I
- speakerdo what I
- speakertell them when they start
- speakercriticizing you, said
- speakerI don't know how your friends,
- speakerbut I know you love Jesus as
- speakermuch as I do.
- speakerAnd you know, Jerry Andrews
- speakerwas my installation
- speakercommittee at Fourth Pres,
- speakerand I had a very cordial
- speakerrelationship with Jerry and
- speakerJerry, Jack and, you know,
- speakerpeople with integrity.
- speakerAnd to me
- speakerright now, I'm involved with
- speakersomething called Better Angels,
- speakerstarted by David Blankenhorn,
- speakerwhere we're trying
- speakerto build bridges in the country
- speakerand various places in the country
- speakerwhere Trump supporters
- speakerand Clinton supporters can
- speakercome together and have
- speakerget to know one another.
- speakerAnd, you know, no one leaves
- speakerhaving changed his or her mind
- speakerabout the issues,
- speakerbut they have changed their minds
- speakerthat these are about
- speakerdemonizing the other.
- speakerAnd that's, you know, hats
- speakeroff to Joe Small.
- speakerJoe's pretty conservative.
- speakerBut I always I've always
- speakerhad the greatest respect for him
- speakerbecause, you know,
- speakerhe's he's very theologically
- speakerastute and his ecclesiology
- speakeris great and he knows
- speakerstuff I don't know and need to know.
- speakerAnd that's just, you know, I,
- speakerI can't go to the extremes.
- speakerBut when it comes to
- speakerinclusion of GLBT
- speakerpeople,
- speakersince I have retired and I've
- speakerretired three times, but this time I
- speakerthink for good,
- speakerI have got I have gone to the
- speakerextreme.
- speakerI mean, I can't
- speakerstand
- speakerto even hear anybody
- speakertalk about
- speakergay people in category
- speakerI I, how you
- speakercould do that
- speakerto other human beings.
- speakerI mean, honestly, I get up and
- speakerleave conversations when they're
- speakerwell-meaning Presbyterians will
- speakerlet me talk about this guy
- speakerI knew who was on the football team
- speakerwho turned out to be gay.
- speakerAnd then someone else says, Well,
- speakerand gay is this, and gay is that.
- speakerI'm in a leaders group where they
- speakerjust objectify.
- speakerI say, Just hush.
- speakerYou know, what in the world's the
- speakermatter with you?
- speakerAnd my sister in law a
- speakercouple of years ago.
- speakerWe were sitting beside each other at
- speakera dinner.
- speakerAnd she was talking about this
- speakermegachurch she started to go
- speakerto.
- speakerI said, Well, that sounds good.
- speakerThe message is a good one, she said
- speakeroh it helps me so much.
- speakerAnd I said, Well,
- speakeryou know, are there all kinds
- speakerof people? They're welcome?
- speakerAnd she said, Well, I don't know
- speakerwhat you're talking about. I said well,
- speakerthere are you know, 6000
- speakerpeople. You just, tell me about them.
- speakerShe said, you mean are there gay
- speakerpeople there?
- speakerAnd I said, Well, yeah, that would I
- speakerwould say so
- speakerthat would be a part of my question.
- speakerWell and she said, I don't think
- speakerthey'd feel very comfortable there.
- speakerShe said, I'm in a Bible study and
- speakerthis girl that I
- speakerget together with to talk about
- speakerscripture.
- speakerShe told me something that really
- speakerhelped the other day.
- speakerShe told me, you know,
- speakerTamara, we're
- speakerall sinners.
- speakerIt's just a question of
- speakerwhich sin.
- speakerAnd she was sitting on my left
- speakerand I put my arm on the back
- speakerof her chair and leaned
- speakerover to her right
- speakerear.
- speakerAnd I said, I
- speakerneed to tell you something.
- speakerI'm horrified
- speakerthat you could have been the aunt
- speakerof the most outstanding
- speakerhuman being known
- speakeras Elizabeth Adams.
- speakerAnd even if she weren't outstanding,
- speakerhow you could say that.
- speakerAnd this is the next thing
- speakerI'm going to say.
- speakerIf you ever want to see
- speakerme or your brother
- speakeror Elizabeth or Sam
- speakeragain, you will never
- speakersay anything remotely
- speakerlike that.
- speakerDo you understand?
- speakerAnd then I got up and left the
- speakertable. I'm telling I have
- speakergotten I you know,
- speakerI try to be irenic, but I
- speakerthat has pushed me over
- speakerthat because.
- speakerAnd I just think.
- speakerI just think how horrible
- speakerit would be to have people.
- speakerI mean, I just think about
- speakerElizabeth, who I just know so
- speakerwell and
- speakeryou know, that you just have to go
- speakeraround knowing that there are
- speakerpeople around judging
- speakeryour very existence.
- speakerYou know, that expression
- speakerwell pardon me for living
- speakerhonestly.
- speakerOh, I'm actually afraid I'm going to
- speakerdo something, I'm not going to hit anybody but,
- speakeryou know, I just can't take it
- speakeranymore.
- speakerI'll tell you something that
- speakerhappened.
- speakerI don't know when it was.
- speakerWe can we can
- speakerlook it up.
- speakerBut we were at a big,
- speakerfancy dinner party
- speakerat the home of some very wealthy
- speakerTrinity members when I was pastor
- speakerthere, very
- speakerelegant party.
- speakerAnd I would say there were maybe
- speakerten people at the table,
- speakermaybe 12.
- speakerAnd the fellow down the table from
- speakerus his name was Bob
- speakerwas making conversation
- speakerand he said, Has anybody
- speakerseen the
- speakercover of Time Magazine this
- speakerweek?
- speakerAnd he said well I'll tell you whose
- speakerpicture's on the cover
- speakerthat dyke Ellen
- speakerDeGeneres.
- speakerSo Al, who's eating his salad,
- speakerpushes
- speakerhis chair back,
- speakergets up
- speakerand says, Bob,
- speakerwhether you are aware or
- speakernot,
- speakerJoanna and I are the proud
- speakerparents of an absolutely
- speakerwonderful daughter
- speakerwho is lesbian.
- speakerAnd you must withdraw
- speakerthat comment.
- speakerAcross the table was a wonderful,
- speakerwonderful lady.
- speakerOh, my goodness.
- speakerI won't go into that.
- speakerShe's wonderful.
- speakerVery wealthy, prominent person in
- speakerAtlanta.
- speakerThe table, dead silence.
- speakerAnd she said something
- speakerto the effect, Well, Al,
- speakerso good for you to share.
- speakerAnd then she knew she
- speakerwas a wonderful society lady.
- speakerHad to say the next thing
- speakerthat would move the conversation.
- speakerI've never loved anybody
- speakermore in my life.
- speakerAnd that night, by the time we got
- speakerhome, Bob had
- speakerleft a message on our machine,
- speakerand he was weeping.
- speakerHe said that was one of
- speakerthe most disgraceful
- speakerthings I've ever done,
- speakerand there's no way
- speakerI can apologize enough.
- speakerAnd we remain friends.
- speakerI'm a, you know, I'm Facebook
- speakerfriends with his wife,
- speakeryou know.
- speakerThere you go.
- speakerSo how does this influence
- speakeryour preaching as you and
- speakerfrom the time you were you were a
- speakeryoung preacher, you were publishing
- speakerarticles on preaching, your
- speakersermons were being published.
- speakerYou were you know invited around the
- speakercountry.
- speakerHow does this drive for
- speakertruth telling?
- speakerWell, it helps.
- speakerYou know, how does that, how does
- speakerthat shape your
- speakeryour preaching or does it?
- speakerI used to be
- speakermore self-righteous than I am
- speakerthat I know I sounded pretty
- speakerself-righteous about GLBT
- speakerpeople
- speakerand I.
- speakerIt's influenced my preaching
- speakera lot
- speakerin that I care about things
- speakerand I want to be able
- speakerto help people open
- speakerup, you know?
- speakerMy last parish
- speakercall was as the interim senior
- speakerpastor of First Presbyterian Church
- speakerhere, which is a church that
- speakerI would say is is
- speakercentrist to conservative.
- speakerI absolutely loved it.
- speakerAnd by the way, people who would
- speakeridentify as conservative, usually
- speakerlike me as much or more than
- speakerthe liberals do, because the
- speakerliberals want me to be more
- speakerliberal. And me, I'm
- speakeralways thinking, well, what good
- speakerwould it do if we go to this church
- speakerand they go to another church and we
- speakernever talk?
- speakerBut.
- speakerYou know, I preached a sermon on gay
- speakermarriage at First Presbyterian
- speakerand did it in a in a pastoral
- speakerway.
- speakerYou know, I'd just done a funeral
- speakerfor a
- speakerwonderful lady who had been
- speakerwith her partner, Mary
- speakerand Ernestine. They'd been together
- speaker61 years
- speakerand they never, ever
- speakerwere able to get married.
- speakerWhy couldn't you know,
- speakerwhy couldn't wedding bells
- speakerhave rung for them?
- speakerI try to not
- speakerbe shrill
- speakeror overbearing.
- speakerI try to be a biblical
- speakerpreacher.
- speakerI remember preaching at Massanetta
- speakerSprings the last
- speakertime. I'm not going to go back there
- speakerthough my grandson
- speakerloves Massanetta Springs, loves the,
- speakerbut I preached a sermon
- speakerand this was just I don't know
- speakerhow many years ago, not too many, on
- speakerhospitality.
- speakerMy main illustration
- speakercame from
- speakergoing back to the eighties,
- speakerthe guy who had been the moderator
- speakerhad heard me preach at General
- speakerAssembly, and I preached about
- speakerfour times in a row that was back
- speakerin the day.
- speakerAnd he invited me to come to
- speakerhis church in Texas,
- speakerwhich is right on the border, to
- speakerpreach and lead something.
- speakerSo I did. And I was amazed
- speakerto learn that the church's
- speakermain mission was
- speakerwith regard to the babies
- speakerwhose mothers had,
- speakeryou know, come swimming
- speakeracross the river,
- speakeryou know, so that their babies could
- speakerbe born in the United States.
- speakerSo I told that story,
- speakerwhich is just astonishing in
- speakerthis conservative town in Texas.
- speakerI'm sure it was a conservative
- speakerchurch,
- speakerand
- speakerI just talked about
- speakerradical hospitality of God.
- speakerI don't even know whether I used the
- speakerword radical.
- speakerNot a soul spoke to me
- speakerafter I preached that sermon.
- speakerBecause, you know, immigration was
- speakergetting hot.
- speakerAnd certainly, you know, we had this
- speakerwoman here telling us
- speakersomething about the radical grace of
- speakerGod. That
- speakerwas just recently, I mean, you know,
- speakerthe last three or four years.
- speakerSo, you know,
- speakerI.
- speakerI remember, particularly with regard
- speakerto inclusion.
- speakerRealizing
- speakerthat the only one I really
- speakerneeded to please was my
- speakerCreator.
- speakerMy Father.
- speakerI never had trouble thinking of God
- speakeras Father or Mother.
- speakerAnd and myself.
- speakerCan I look myself
- speakerin the face, in the mirror
- speakerand say, well for you Joanna, this was a moment and
- speakeryou didn't pull your punches?
- speakerAnd I think if I'm lined up
- speakerwith God's purposes.
- speakerI think.
- speakerOh, yes.
- speakerIf you don't do something now,
- speakerthen you know to hell with you.
- speakerAnd ministers are so
- speakercautious
- speakerthese days until
- speakerit just drives me
- speakercrazy every time I
- speakergo to hear a sermon and I
- speakergo to church every Sunday.
- speakerHere there we do.
- speakerI'm so struck.
- speakerHere's one of my tests for a sermon.
- speakerCould you have preached the sermon
- speakerin 1978?
- speakerCould you have preached it
- speakerin 2001?
- speakerAnd if so, then you're not
- speakerdoing your job.
- speakerYou know, you're you're totally
- speakerdisconnected. I
- speakera
- speakeryou know, we all have our own
- speakerpilgrimage.
- speakerI am theologically
- speakerwould not call myself in
- speakerthe liberal camp.
- speakerYou know, I led a Macedonian
- speakergroup for three years with Tom
- speakerTewell after I retired
- speakerthe first time.
- speakerAnd I remember in one of our
- speakerconversations.
- speakerWe were talking about preaching,
- speakerthere's 16 pastors in the group.
- speakerAnd I said, you know, my
- speakergreat fear when I went to seminary
- speakerwas that I might lose my faith,
- speakeryou know, because, you know, you
- speakercan't if you stop believing it,
- speakeryou know,
- speakerthen you're in trouble.
- speakerAnd I knew that was the risk.
- speakerIt's a risk for all of us.
- speakerI said, But look, if
- speakeryou really
- speakerbecome convinced
- speakerthat God did not raise Christ
- speakerfrom the dead,
- speakerif you really think
- speakerit's all a myth,
- speakerthen go sell insurance
- speakeror cars.
- speakerBut you took a vow
- speakerto proclaim the Gospel of Jesus
- speakerChrist.
- speakerAnd what's happened to me
- speakerover the years is
- speakerthe more I've studied and the more
- speakerI preached, and the more I've lived
- speakerthat spiritual gift of
- speakerfaith.
- speakerI've just been in a place
- speakerwhere God has just
- speakerpoured it out in spoons full.
- speakerDo you still feel that that physical
- speakerhunger that you felt when
- speakeryou first went to seminary?
- speakerNo, I feel
- speakerI feel more deeply,
- speakerbut I feel nourished.
- speakerAnd one of the main reasons I keep
- speakergoing to church is that
- speakerI love the liturgy.
- speakerI have to say I don't know whether,
- speakeryou know David Lewicki,
- speakerbut he I think is
- speakerthe best preacher
- speakertoday in the PC(USA)
- speakerand his oh, he's so
- speakergood, so smart,
- speakerso real, very authentic.
- speakerAnd see I think people forgive you
- speakeranything if they know
- speakerthat you're not standing
- speakerup like Jeremiah saying
- speakeryou, you know, you are
- speakerrotten losers if you don't
- speakersee it my way.
- speakerYou know, he's he's working
- speakerthrough it and helps you
- speakerdo the same.
- speakerSo I love him
- speakerthe the church now is a great
- speakerchurch, it's you know, Al and I
- speakerare just a different place now.
- speakerYou know, we're not
- speakerthe struggling young couple
- speakerwe were.
- speakerBut I love to go hear him preach.
- speakerSo is there. I know we haven't.
- speakerThere's so much we can cover, but
- speakerthere's limits to energy and time.
- speakerIs there any anything else you want
- speakerto share?
- speakerI think the need
- speakerfor public
- speakervoices from
- speakerpeople of the Christian faith,
- speakerpeople needing to hear
- speakerit. People are longing
- speakerto hear it.
- speakerAnd my concern is that
- speakerwe're just circling the wagons.
- speakerAnd I'll just agree, oh isn't it awful isn't it
- speakerterrible, terrible, terrible most
- speakerother people thought.
- speakerBut, you know,
- speakershow us as way forward
- speakerin a non self-righteous way.
- speakerHelp us remember
- speakerand reclaim
- speakerthe great values
- speakerthat underlie
- speakerreligious traditions and help
- speakerthese societies.
- speakerThat. That's my yearning.
- speakerAnd
- speakerI just am very concerned
- speakerthat because of
- speakerfear of being judged
- speakeror thrown
- speakerout, that you have
- speakertwo kids in college or
- speakerwhatever, that, you know,
- speakerthat we've lost our
- speakervoice and our moral authority.
- speakerSo here, you know, you hear.
- speakerYou go to church, you hear great
- speakerstories about,
- speakerI don't know, coaches
- speakeror,
- speakerwild, long, long, long anecdotes.
- speakerHoping that God will show up
- speakersomewhere.
- speakerIt's like you're presenting
- speakersomething,
- speakerbut you're not
- speakerdoing that.
- speakerI want if I could get a copy
- speakerof some of the blogs
- speakerthat I wrote?
- speakerI'd love to share those with you,
- speakerbecause that was the four of us
- speakerreally.
- speakerThat would be wonderful.
- speakerReally wanting to speak to the
- speakerbroader community.
- speakerThat will be fantastic.
- speakerAnd I get still get asked
- speakerto you know, pray at all kind
- speakerof things in Atlanta.
- speakerYou are one of Atlanta's 45 favorite
- speakerpeople.
- speakerBut I don't know who's
- speakercoming behind me.
- speakerI don't know who's coming behind me.
- speakerYou know, I want to be generative.
- speakerBut I know there are a lot of good,
- speakersmart women, but they are not
- speakerinvolved in Atlanta.
- speakerBut they're not involved in
- speakerthe civic life.
- speakerYou know, you've got that
- speakerbifurcation, you've got the,
- speakeryou know, by golly if I'm going to
- speakerpray
- speakerat the mayor's inauguration.
- speakerAnd I'm a Christian.
- speakerI'm going to pray in Christ's name.
- speakerYou know, you got that stupid
- speakercrew.
- speakerSo I think a lot of,
- speakeryou know, they're leaving out the
- speakerreligious element because
- speakeryou don't know what what you're
- speakergoing to get.
- speakerBut thank
- speakeryou for a good conversation.
- speakerI appreciate your wonderful
- speakerquestioning.
- speakerAnd and you're listening.
- speakerI've enjoyed it.
- speakerFantastic.
- speakerThank you.